Sorry you are hurting

I am not sure why you are saying you are in minority. Most people do ask their friends and loved ones what's wrong if all of a sudden they act strange. In fact I can't imagine too many people simply waiting in hopes time will change things. That's rather unusual.

Saying all thAt if someone simply isn't interested in you and doesn't want to hang out , there is nothing to discuss and nothing to fix or talk over. You may ask but if they don't explain there is no reason to insist and time to move on. They just are not interested. You can't make them want to spend time with you by talking it over. Such is life .

Edit to add that responding to texts means nothing if they aren't interested in seeing you. You don't have to be close friends or lovers to respond to texts.

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