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My nature is to ask questions,to search for"why" things may have gone wrong in certain situations and then try to "put them right".I can spend a great deal of my time doing this.This applies to relationships as well as other situations in life.Yet,when I look back on things ,in general terms ,things seem to have a greater chance of turning out the way I want them to if I relax and back off.Anyone else found this?

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yes! i found out that analizing and trying to figure out and make conclussions can waste your time..
if you relax you feel better..you may have FAITH IN LIFE.
it is very important. then things end up on YOUR side!