rr13 this probably has nothing to do with you but is still painful. I was recently dumped by someone close to me in a text, no real explanation just a lame excuse that they had never even mentioned over the past year. It is difficult because we spend so much time trying to figure out what we did wrong, especially when we care for someone.
If you were your true self trying to be kind and honest then you did nothing wrong. There are just some people in our lives that are not at the same place we are and need to move on.
Hope you find some peace with this.