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Well it looks like you will not have to let her go entirely. Good luck.. the distance does not have to ruin the friendship. But it looks like you will have to work on your confidence.. it can be a lot expecting someone else to be there... or if you get concerned because they do not respond quickly enough. The attachment should not be obsessive.
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“A person is also mentally weak by the quantity of time he spends to sneak peek into others lives to devalue and degrade the quality of his own life.” Anuj Somany
“Psychotherapy works by going deep into the brain and its neurons and changing their structure by turning on the right genes. The talking cure works by "talking to neurons," and that an effective psychotherapist or psychoanalyst is a "microsurgeon of the mind" who helps patients make needed alterations in neuronal networks.” Norman Doidge
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