These are statements I found on online self esteem tests. I wish I could 100% believe in them, but I will try. Im asking for more statements like this.

The problem is that everyone knows the state in which one needs to be and very few know HOW to get to that state - not even my psychotherapist, and neither do you [there I said it, Im already practicing it, I would have never said such a thing before], although I appreciate your response.

Im trying this approach where I just imagine Im already there. But I need more statements. Its like a poor man trying to copy a rich man's qualities and traits.