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I had to have a total hysterectomy at age 42! I never had the chance to have children, I thought I would never be able to orgasm again and they had to cut me open because I was not a candidate for laporscopic surgery. Then there was the 3 month recovery along with fighting my eating disorder and the already distorted body image.
I made it through the surgery. My orgasms are different yet better, It really,took me a year for full recovery and my lower abdomen is scared and flabby. My body image still sucks.
Your balls will heal, you will have a scar. You will get through this.
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors.
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