I've made a few attempts to find the man who abused me 38 years ago, but have only come up with dead ends. My parents hired the guy, but can't remember his name (but, I only asked 25 years later).

I did confront my parents about it, and they have apologized for letting me spend the night with a stranger (he did some plumbing repairs on our house). My dad admits the guy should have been charged with his crime.