He may be tired and overexhausted from working those jobs and don't want to bring up another issue at home. He says being financially secure is important, and it is, especially if you are soon wanting to TTC. I have a submissive-ish husband, his spirit broke and he exploded, he changed. He doesn't want to work anymore and we lost our home, and I was pregnant, he does whatever he wants, complete 180. Chances are things will change, not as extreme like in my situation. I also like being submissive