As a dude I don't understand this. Like before I get so sprung up and extremely aroused I almost had sex yesterday, but honestly I didn't feel like it during everything building up. I felt more bored out of my mind hence why I take forever to finish during sex. Is this normal? Like my body shuts off feeling the highs from sex and delays it, but masturbation hasn't changed. Like I mean it's like waking up with morning wood you're not horny or nothing like the hormones all of it shut off...

I don't know what it means, but anyone with more knowledge on it may help thanks.