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She said no from the start pretty much but wouldn't give me a direct answer. ........
I wanted her to tell me no. I mean she kept saying everything but no. I know I was being deluded and trying for something that wasn't there to begin with. I just wish she would have given me a straight up answer like I asked her to begin with.
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People don't always give us the answer we want in the way we want it....you said initially that she was saying no from the beginning....it was YOUR RESPONSIBILITY to hear what she was saying & to understand what she was telling you.....you did....but you refused unless she said it exactly the way you wanted to hear it.....That's NOT the way the world works. It's your responsibility to hear what people tell you even if it's not exactly using the words you are trying to FORCE them to say.
Maybe with that heavy flirting she was trying to get even with you for not listening to her in the first place?.....Just a thought.