Im pretty much a closeted male person. On the advise of my psychotherapist I've started looking for friends, not friends with benefits, just friends, people to hang out with.

Now, I've got several replies to my online ad.

What I'm worried about is that if I meet these people and if I think it's a no match, then how do I tell this to that person?

And when I do they will think I'm a jerk.... [...sigh...]