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Originally Posted by eskielover
People don't always give us the answer we want in the way we want it....you said initially that she was saying no from the beginning....it was YOUR RESPONSIBILITY to hear what she was saying & to understand what she was telling you.....you did....but you refused unless she said it exactly the way you wanted to hear it.....That's NOT the way the world works. It's your responsibility to hear what people tell you even if it's not exactly using the words you are trying to FORCE them to say.
Maybe with that heavy flirting she was trying to get even with you for not listening to her in the first place?.....Just a thought.
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Nope, she is just a horny creature. The entire 2 years I've known her she has enjoyed flirting with me online. I wasn't the only one who thought we had something. I mean I didn't have the balls to tell her how I was feeling (deepdeepinside) until someone else told me "0h you should ask her out." It's whatever. Everyone here will just try to tell me I was acting like a rapist or something trying to force myself onto her when that wasn't how it was. It's such a trend on this forum how no matter what I do the woman is always in the right and me (the guy) is always in the wrong. Why does it seem to be that way here?
I'm still nice towards her anyway but now she is very cold and acting like a ***** towards me atm.
Saying "Ah I don't know about a LDR" isn't saying no. I wanted her to say no from the start because I knew if she didn't I was gonna get hopelessly lost. Asking for a straight answer- don't see how that is wrong of me/ forcing myself upon her.
This is why a few other users have left this forum. All men because of this ****.
Also she was not saying no to us. She was saying no to LDRs. That was why I was suggesting moving in together so quickly to get over that LDR hump. Whatever. I don't hate her for saying no. I actually WANTED her to say no. All she had to do was say no.