It took me so long to realize to feel comfortable that wanting to be a woman is ok and that no one will take my past as use it as an example as me as a failure. My transgenderism came before then also did my empathy for realizing everyone is a victim of something the true friends are the fellow survivors who venture with you as good companions and guides on your life journey you don't need to give them gifts they value you and your presence.

that's the people I cherish.