My therapist asked me for stop thinking so much about my condition, mainly bc she thinks I'm wrong. According to her, I haven't got BPD, but avoidant traits and some issues with dependency.
I even was convinced that I was a high functioning borderline and I was very worried for not being following the right therapy for this disorder.

Diagnoses are not easy to reach, so this is my main concern with this thread, telling people that if you need to have a proper diagnoses, consider if your psychiatrist has the whole picture. Don't be afraid of telling him/her.
Many are reluctant to give a label but many times the right therapy is on the blanket.