I'll try to keep this short. My wife has virtually zero sex drive. It's been pretty nonexistent since we got married almost 15 years ago. While we were dating we had sex quite often.

She did have one of her ovaries removed almost 20 years ago as the result of a tumor. I know that she doesn't feel good about herself and she's working on it, and I've tried to help her with that but it seems like nothing I say does any good. Sometimes (very rarely) she'll get in the mood and stay that way for a few days, but like I said it doesn't happen that often. Every time we do have sex she says how much better it makes her feel and that we should do it more often, but then it's right back to the way it used to be.

What I'm wondering is if anyone has any experience with any over the counter herbs or supplements that could help increase her sex drive? She's too embarrassed to mention it to her doctor so this is the only way I can think to help her.