I did confront my brother about the fact he told me it was my fault I was abused. That in itself was very abusive.
It wasn't very satisfying. I confronted him in public and he denied it in a way that made me look like I was making things up.
So, abuse heaped upon abuse, as far as I'm concerned. He lives far away, and I see no reason to have any contact with him (and actually, I told him never to contact me again.).
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My business is to teach my aspirations to conform themselves to fact, not to try and make facts harmonise with my aspirations. T.H. Huxley
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