Echoes,
I'm so sorry you're in this situation. I can relate. My T just had surgery, and we won't get to meet for two more weeks. It will be four weeks off in total. While I understand the situation, it's also really hard, disappointing, sad, frustrating, scary, lonely, etc. And of course I worry about him, too. It's really hard not knowing how he came through. I asked him what he was having done, and he told me. I kind of wish I hadn't asked, though I can understand the worry and curiosity of not knowing, too. It's just a crappy situation all around.

I hope the time goes by quickly. I think it's great that you reached out for support here.

Take care,

gg