I have been thinking for 2 days on whether I should share this or not and decided ok I will.

When I was in High School I was a stalker. I stalked my high school history teacher. He was nice to me and I decided that meant he loved me and wanted us to be together. So out in left field that thinking was. He was happily married and had 2 kids. Any way I drove by his house a gajillion times a night. At Christmas time stood out with a friend and sang Christmas carols to him etc. He made me mad one day ( I can't remember what happened to make me mad) but I told him I know where you live and I will run over your dog and kill your kids. Ok this is where I take a deep breathe and try to stay calm. He was the sponsor on our senior trip to the Soviet Union and he jarred my world by saying if I came within 50 feet of his house again he would call the police and I wouldn't get to go on the trip. Well that was enough to make me stop but to this day I can't stop thinking about what I put him and his family through.

I have borderline personality disorder and I know this is no excuse but its the facts. I have since apologized to him and he has forgiven me and I plan to never see him again. I think to make this person stop harassing you you need to push him by getting the police involved. Having a policeman tell you to quit contacting someone is a pretty good wake up call. I can tell you from experience that ignoring him won't make him go away it kind of tells him its ok to be doing what he's doing since it can't make you mad.

Janniebug