My bf just picked me up from work and we stopped at a gas station...some dude in all black walked slowly to the side of the gas station (i could see all of this) and stood there and just looked around...then when some of the cars left ...he went to the locked gate and slipped through into the dark backyard area of the gas station....so i waited and looked but the guy didnt come out...i went inside...and when all of the customers left i told the cashier girl that some very suspious looking man slipped in through the gate...she looked surprised and thankful and said she would call the police...well i left and got back in the car and i told my bf and he flipped....he said the girl coulda been in on it and i coulda got shot....i told him well...i didnt get shot....and besides if everyone thought like you then everyone would get away with bad stuff and no one would get involved to stop it... i know he was caring and concerned about my safety....but...when do you blow the horn and when dont you for your own safety...i have boundary issues and sometimes they are very unclear ....its just my instincts told me i should tell her....and i know from experience that when i dont do what my instincts do i end up making my life hell....and probably would force my boyfriend to take me back....so did i do the right thing...or should i have kept my mouth shut...,maybe what i did was stupid..i dont know...