Sorry so much crap is raining down on you, Christina but glad to see you are taking care of business! Go you!!

(And in answer to your question -- yes! Complicated situation IRL, but suffice to say that I've been in limbo from a situation of 3 other people where 2 people have quite different ideas on how to handle something involving the third person. Not exactly opposite poles but a good enough description. What? A bipolar situation? Got it! I'm going to step to the plate and give it my best. Hope my sincerity to see everyone come out well is sufficient to sway to a good resolution. And yes, putting myself in this scares the crap out of me, but I'm doing it anyway(!) because... "Enough!", you know? Limbo sucks and I want my life back!)

"That's all it can have and no more!" is a great attitude!