I think though that you can do better.
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I know I'm sort of self defeating but this is the way it is. I guess I'm writing this to seek approval of this redundant lifestyle. It's lonely but I'm pretty comfortable on the fringe.
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I favor getting away from
self-defeating and
lonely but...comfortable.
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It's just easier to not get involved but it's also painful......
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Find the path that is a bit harder but much less painful. Don't settle for three times a week alone at a coffee shop.
You can do better.
I ask you this: how many men your age do you see befriended by a young woman not related to them?
You have more to offer than you seem to realize or are willing to admit.
Use those gifts!