You need to find a doctor that will listen to you and help you. If this doctor is not doing it and you do not feel comfortable then do not go back. I would not.

If you do not feel comfortable telling her face to face then send her an email. Sometimes it's not the right "fit" with a doctor and if she is being judgmental that is way out of line. Her office is the place that you need to feel comfortable talking about your feelings.

Get a new doctor. Good luck and keep us posted