janniebug

{{{{{{janniebug}}}}}}

Thank you for sharing that. I know it must have been difficult but I think it will help a lot of people, hearing your story, and this is a safe place to share it.

I think Dave you have a lot of votes for "contact the police," maybe even if there isn't enough to file a report, they will still talk to him and maybe scare him into stopping... even if not, you want a police complaint on record.

Keep in mind though that this may be a little different as he isn't infatuated with you (at least not outwardly) but may think in his twisted way that he is "doing his duty" to inform everyone of your "wrongdoings."

And you also have a lot of votes for "don't contact him yourself." I think this person is able to twist any contact you may have with him to fit his own view of the world. If you talk to him nicely he may decide that you are not bad but are now a supergood friend to him again which might be just as bad. Of it might make him even more angry and determined. The goal is to make him forget about you and I think any form of contact from you will stoke the coals so to speak.

Even if he is not a danger, you don't want him disparaging your reputation for the rest of your life. People may understand now but suppose he wrecks your credit or something. In any case you don't want to have to be worrying whether he is dangerous or not for the rest of your life.

Good luck...