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Originally Posted by artemis-within
I still have some wine left from earlier. I'm coming too. (my h yelled at me earlier because I asked him if he would mind getting a copy of the vaccination record from the doctor's office that we need to register son for school next year. He yelled at me "Why would you think I wouldn't?" I replied through my shocked tears, "I thought I was asking you politely, I thought that would sound better than telling you to do it, why are you yelling at me?" and he grumbled and walked away.)
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(((Art)))
Have you talked to him about doing couples' yet? It sounds like he's hearing some old toxic 'tapes' in his head rather than your reasonable requests... 
It also occurs to me that it may have been easier for him when you were not functioning so well - that way he could blame his stuff on you and your issues instead of facing it. On some unconscious level he might want to push you back into that pit because it's easier for him
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