Can someone tell me is it safe to talk to T about another T who crossed the line? I don't want to cause him problems, I think it would be easy to find out who he is if I told and if my T will know who he is and what he did- can she report him?
I really don't want to do anything bad to him but I need to talk to someone who understands me, I don't know where to go. Sometimes I think I can go through this on my own but sometimes it seems like hell, I can't see any help anywhere, maybe all I need is time to heal this.
My choice is not to report him and I will not change my mind so I want to know how to ask for help myself not causing problems to him, if my current T would find out who he is and report him, she will destroy my trust, she will destroy me but I'm worried she would think she is right.