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Originally Posted by scorpiosis37
I think sometimes actions speak louder than words. This girl says to you: "I'm around anytime" but then when you text her, she ignores you and does not meet up with you. I would say that her actions are telling you she is not interested.
As a woman who is in your age bracket, I can also tell you that the way you talk to her would be considered a "turn off" by most of the women I know. You seem to be very passive aggressive. For instance, when she ignored your text, you responded by saying: "ok, I guess I'll just leave you alone then." That's a pretty immature way to respond. You also refuse to ask her on a date, but you "remind her of the big crush you had on her." That's also immature and passive aggressive. I don't know where you are located, but I live in the suburban US and, unless you ask a girl on a date, you are unlikely to ever "date" her. Formal dates are still very much a thing. The "hang out" was popular in high school, but not now that we are all adults. Unless you put some effort into courting a woman and prioritize her needs/wants, she is unlikely to consider you a potential suitor. The way you come across, at least on this forum, is insecure and shy and afraid to make a move. Most women want someone who is confident and will actually make an effort.
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Your replies are not helpful at all.
You are completely wrong about every single thing you've typed.
I know what girls like. Confident, direct, assertive, ballsy. This **** isn't rocket science. I'm very very very confident. Probably one of the most confident people you've ever met. Plus I've been in many serious relationships, and I've slept with dozens and dozens of women. I have never asked a woman on a "date," ever. Nor do I care to.
I'm from New York. We consider that cheesy and overly sentimental. You hang out with a girl then put your penis in her. Period.
When she said "I'm around anytime," she meant it. You shoulda seen the way this chick's eyes lit up and she got all excited. That's the whole point. This chick flip flops. She has no reason to be disinterested in me. I'm an attractive, successful, good looking guy and women always love me. The women I date generally are stunning. Like cream of the crop. Those are the types of women I'm used to. The woman I was with before all this, before me used to date Major League Ball Players, Actors, Musicians, etc. I've had women that are probably 10x hotter than you or your friends could probably ever hope to be wrapped so tightly around my finger that I lost circulation. I HIGHLY doubt any of your 'friends' would consider my a turn off. I'm not trying to be like "zomg I'm so cool" but I have
no doubts in my ability to attract women.
I mean I will be honest, with this girl I do get a little nervous, which is something that never really happens to me with women. It's just because of the history I had with her that my body does pump out a little fight or flight response sometimes. I usually just push through it. But I don't know if i would call it FEAR. Yea... I have fears because I didn't go to her like "Hey wanna go out on a date?! I'll get my bow tie and bring you a box of chocolates and we'll hold hands and put our toes in the sand."
NOBODY I know does dates anymore.
Dude, she knows I'm interested in her because I told her a while ago. I've been completely open about that. I don't need to call something a "date," in order to convey interest.
You type the most asinine crap. Saying "Alright I'l leave you alone" is immature? First off, I don't even think that's what I said. That was paraphrasing. Honestly, that was a long time ago and at that point I DID think she was uninterested. So I shot her a message "Listen if you don't want to hear from me, you can just say so. I'm just not gonna type to you anymore." And she replied back RIGHT away sounding like she was gonna cry. "Omg why are you being like that? I never said I didn't want to hear from you. I've just been really really busy with work and all this." And then apologized 7 times.
I mean there is a possibility of disinterest, I just really doubt it. This chick has always liked me.
Anyway, if you're not gonna be helpful, go suck the air of a tire. I didn't come here for this sarcastic dog crap.