(((Art)))
Have you talked to him about doing couples' yet? It sounds like he's hearing some old toxic 'tapes' in his head rather than your reasonable requests...

It also occurs to me that it may have been easier for him when you were not functioning so well - that way he could blame his stuff on you and your issues instead of facing it. On some unconscious level he might want to push you back into that pit because it's easier for him



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