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Old Jun 10, 2015, 12:13 PM
Gwen314 Gwen314 is offline
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Originally Posted by Rose76 View Post
If you are not sure yet if the relationship is over for good, then I can understand you not blocking him on facebook. My impression is that you wanted to take a month's break from being with him. I think you should stick to what you decided, even if he doesn't. Making any response to his comments on your facebook page gives him the power to force you to interact.

Also, if you think there is a chance you two will get back together, then you don't want to teach him that what you say has no staying power. Then he'll learn that all he has to do is wait a bit and you will be back in the usual groove. I think he's testing you. I doubt very seriously that he is confused. He is gently pushing the boundary. But he does mean it to be flattering to you. He wants to keep the door open between you two.

If you do decide that this relationship is over, then do consider blocking him. But wait the month, as you decided. I think that, if you stick to your guns about not being lured into giving him any resppnse for a month, he will have more respect for you, whatever you decide about the relationship.
Thank you for your reply; it means a lot. I do not plan on getting back together with him, but I do want us to remain friends.

He attempted to contact me twice after we broke up and I told him on both occasions that we need to have no contact for a month (perhaps more) so that we have time to work through our emotions.

His comments have made it clear that he would like to get back together, and so I'm not certain if a friendship will be possible - especially so soon after we broke up.

Thank you again for your reply.
Thanks for this!
Rose76