Tongalee-Talk to her about it. Talk to her about your fears.
I would want to know, though, if this touching, cuddling was temporary...like what happened to musinglizzy.

Musinglizzy: I have had tears streaming down my face reading your previous postings and now this one. I have never had this. Ever. Never had the warm comfort or safety. Not with parents, not with husband(s). Not with anyone.

These situations have prompted me to discuss with my T if she is eventually going to change her boundaries. We don't touch but she is liberal with her availability...with her caring...with her accepting my child feelings and my caring. I would be devastated if she abruptly took everything away, became aloof and discouraged my transference/attachment - assuming I should be grown up enough..self sufficient enough now not to need them. More than that, I am like musinglizzy- feeling if that is the plan please let me know now..please talk to me about it. I have been emailing t for several days about this topic, afraid to go back to therapy for fear of her answer. I am going back though.

Tongalee, yes, please talk to your T about this.