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Originally Posted by Mrs. Mania
I can somewhat relate. My older brother molested me for a year. When it came out at a Dr appt. I was considered the family wrecker because he apologized to my mom (?) and I wouldn't forgive (let it go!)
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Yeah, I'm the home wrecker in my family of origin. Because I dared attend adult children of alcoholics for one thing, and dared to talk about what happened in our family for another.
I would like to get to the point where I can forgive the people in my life who have caused me the most pain (mostly family members), but I don't see any reason to forgive the stranger who molested me. I'm not even sure what that would mean.