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Originally Posted by musinglizzy
I was so hurt, so angry, I couldn't cry. I've only just recently started being able to cry again. What's weird is, there were times I wanted to cry. The tears just never came out. How I could be so angry and hurt, but so numb at the same time, makes no sense to me. I see T tomorrow. And I'm hoping things continue to get better, so I can feel the trust and bond that I felt before. It's coming. Slowly....
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My PrevT just wrote me this. It helped me. Maybe it will help you?
"I think that there is a part of you that continues to feel that if she (my current T) disappoints you at all (which being human she is bound to do at some point to some degree…just as I did/do), that there is no recovery of a caring relationship…Your fear is founded..humans do inevitably disappoint the ideal relationship…yet the true value of a relationship is that it can and does recover a closeness. Trust is built on the recovery…not on the incident.
Does that make sense?"