I wanted to find out why this guy friend was pulling away, so I texted him today to see if he wanted to talk about it. What I got back was a very long text basically saying he doesn't feel that we have enough in common for him to spend the time to make this friendship deeper. He also doesn't think I have any other interests other than looking for another job. He's wrong about that, he's just not interested in my hobbies since they're not athletic like his. I guess I didn't think friends needed interests to stay friends. Maybe that's why guys think though since they're not into the emotional feelings that women are. It sucks and I'm really sad about it. Maybe men and women really can't be friends after a certain age.