I am surprised to hear that men aren't into emotional feelings. Sure there is a difference of how women express themselves but men very much have feelings too. True though that to maintain friendship guys usually would like to have similar activities, when looking for a relationship common interests are important but not always required as long as values match.

I know it is sad he doesn't want to be friends but it is what it is. Are you interested in being friends when women too or only men? Are you interested in dating? Maybe this guy wants to date ( you or others ) and get into relationship? Is he dating?

It is not easy finding new friends as we get older. I lost friends over the years because I was always so busy and just never had the time for them and now it is not easy to meet new people.

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