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Originally Posted by Beanbag0
I told my dad I weighed 45kgs but I actually weigh 42 and he has given me until the 1st of may to get to 47! He thinks it's just 2kgs but it's actually 5! I feel sick, I am so screwed and sad and don't know what to do...
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You don't have to feel doomed, it sounds like your Dad is trying to help you by being stern, nor realizing it really, at times, feels it is beyond a choice.... I understand..... I am a Mom and Grandma and know that parents mean well, but sometimes get frustrated trying to help a child, not understanding what is really going on... I am also Anorexic, which I am just finally beginning to accept... so maybe I see both sides?
Have you been getting counseling? I have finally found a Therapist I have started to connect with, my ED is part of my other issues I have. The counseling is helping me actually admit that I have an ED.....
In the meantime, even if you are having a hard time eating, maybe eat a little protein and work out a little to help your muscle tone this will help you gain weight without gaining inches? It has helped me eat a little more...If you are not in counseling, please talk to your Dad about getting one.
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Lindsey
“Even on my weakest days
I get a little bit stronger” - Sarah Evans
Wise words I am trying to learn to live by and will slowly learn to believe as I heal......
“The truth is, unless you let go, unless you forgive yourself, unless you forgive the situation, unless you realize that the situation is over, you cannot move forward.”
- Steve Maraboli
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