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Old Jun 11, 2015, 12:25 AM
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Originally Posted by Beanbag0 View Post
I told my dad I weighed 45kgs but I actually weigh 42 and he has given me until the 1st of may to get to 47! He thinks it's just 2kgs but it's actually 5! I feel sick, I am so screwed and sad and don't know what to do...
You don't have to feel doomed, it sounds like your Dad is trying to help you by being stern, nor realizing it really, at times, feels it is beyond a choice.... I understand..... I am a Mom and Grandma and know that parents mean well, but sometimes get frustrated trying to help a child, not understanding what is really going on... I am also Anorexic, which I am just finally beginning to accept... so maybe I see both sides?

Have you been getting counseling? I have finally found a Therapist I have started to connect with, my ED is part of my other issues I have. The counseling is helping me actually admit that I have an ED.....

In the meantime, even if you are having a hard time eating, maybe eat a little protein and work out a little to help your muscle tone this will help you gain weight without gaining inches? It has helped me eat a little more...If you are not in counseling, please talk to your Dad about getting one.
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