The guy is 45 if that makes any difference. He's also just recently divorced and I think going thru a lot of stuff himself. Yea, I'm starting to think that too. I don't have much in common as far as interests with most of my friends and it's not a problem. I think it was that I've been really depressed lately and talked too much about what wasn't going right. I don't know what to do about that though. Things in my life just aren't going right and my hypothyroidism still isn't regulated, and I think that's part of what's keeping me depressed, since it's a symptom of the medication not working. It's like I just feel sad all the time and can't find anything happy to talk about. I'm afraid to even go out and make new friends feeling this way. Everyone thinks it's just like a light switch, that I can just turn off if I want to. If it was that easy, don't they think I would have done it by now? I mean, who really wants to be sad every day by choice?