I am sorry you are depressed and very much hope you can find affordable therapy or at least ask your doctor if he has suggestions. Nobody deserves to feel like that. I hope it gets better. I am sorry. It's no picnic
As about this guy. No one is obligated to be friends with anyone especially if it is recent new friend/ acquaintance. It's no matter if it is lack of interest, or no emotional connection. I don't see how it is his fault he just doesn't want it. It is time and energy consuming to start new friendships at this age. And if he is recently divorced he has a lot to deal with. I don't know what kind of person he is but He might need some compassion too. When I was getting divorced the last thing on my mind was finding new male friends especially if I needed to provide emotional support to new friends! All I worried was how we are going to co-parent. I have friends who are recently divorced, stress of dealing with alimony or child support or custody or selling the house etc there is no place for new friendships and if there is it would be having fun activities together to take mind off things.
I do hope you find therapy (look into sliding scale please) or try some uplifting things like provide emotional or otherwise support to those in need. Sometimes helping others is a great therapy, takes your mind off your own pain.
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