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Originally Posted by lostreverie
Thanks sideblinded,
I actually never fall for someone this quickly. This was a unique situation where I really felt like I met my "soulmate." We had so much in common that it was kind of scary, and the attraction was really intense. I have definitely learned my lesson in getting in too deep too quickly, but he really led me into thinking this was something real.
I'm trying to move on, but I just really wonder what his motives were for pursuing me when he was already seeing someone else?
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Hi, I'm quite new here, and I hope you don't mind me offering you some advice. I had exactly the same experience as you describe - being totally misled by someone who already had a girlfriend. I am still here, with my heartbreaking SIX YEARS down the line.
You are worth more. Don't do what I did and sit waiting and wondering what happened. AS HARD AS IT IS, you must let this go. Please please don't let what has happened to me, happen to you. HAPPY people in relationships do NOT pursue others. The problem lies with him.
I wish you lots of love.
