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Originally Posted by shakespeare47
What I've learned is that one can have peace of mind without actually having to forgive. Lack of forgiveness doesn't automatically mean one has harmful anger or resentment.
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The first 20 years, I had peace of mind and pity for my brother. The last 10 years I have had anger and resentment. I'm glad we live 6 hours away. I've never revealed this.....EVER - He had a heart attack a few years ago and I hoped he would die. I even fantasized about how awkward the funeral would be when I refused to attend. Ugh
