OH MY!

I am totally angry for you. What a complete failure of basic human empathy let alone professional attunement.

What a jerk.

Would you consider writing a letter letting him know what he did and how it made you feel? It might make you feel better and he obviously needs a lesson in basic decent human interactions. In a similar situation, I have even asked for my money back and gotten it.

I am sorry this happened to you especially in a place where we go to seek help and expect to see people who are trained to understand our feelings and life situations.

WHAT A JERK!!!!