I think we all wonder about different things; there are accountants and there are sex therapists neither is better or deviant? I don't personally wonder much about other's sexual habits (except in relation to mine :-) or care. But my 3rd great grand aunt had a woman business partner back in the 1780's-1815 and they owned/ran a girls school together so you know I wonder about theirs! But I'm a genealogist/historian so. . . that's part of my thing?