Hi UCLAFan,

Glad you’re moving on from an unhealthy situation. You deserve someone who will love and respect you for who you are. I’m kind of a tom-boy too and I was crushed when my first boyfriend said... “You’re cute, but your sister is hot!” I still struggle with self esteem but for the most part I’ve become comfortable in my skin. And it seems the more confidence I have the more I draw in healthy people. And you’re right... a number of women share similar looks. It’s all the more reason to believe in how important your inner beauty is. Stay strong.

Hugs. ~ Bee