This 3 months is also <font color="blue"> your </font> time to decide if the job, employer, hours, tasks, etc are a match for <font color="blue"> you </font> . Taking this job has been a learning experience in that you've learned some things about what you want, what you like, what you need.

Look around to see what else might be out there that would be a better fit for you.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with changing jobs.

Keep in mind though, that beginning any job is stressful--even a dream job--and will take some time to get used to.

(((( Kellarella )))) I'm sorry your mum missed the opportunity to comfort you and I think she was attempting to reassure you and support you by encouraging you to look at the benefits of the job.

You aren't stuck even though you may feel like you are. You can make changes and be more comfortable.