Me, the first time is soooo hard, because whose going to believe you? I blurted it out (or I didn't but it happened) and also told to the DBT therapist.

We've been hidden for 45 years, but it's so like obvious, to me at least.

Since we outed ourselves, I really don't care anymore.

Of course one has to go through the testing and all that, but I'm a good short cut taker...because I don't care because it's not going to kll me, I hope!

Please just be confident. I let an other take over because I'm not much of a people person. Good luck