Sorry. Sending you hugs

This sucks but why would say you like everything or in fact anything about him when first of all you do not know him and second of all he is a jerk. You like him being a jerk. What's that you like?

Also after he cancelled the first time and didn't tell you just stood you up ( not legitimately cancelled due to illness or other emergency) you had to stop talking to him. You instead let him do it three more times.

Why do you care what he does and why. Focus on why you do what you do. I don't mean to be harsh as iv been there done that. So I feel for you.

And I don't understand why when women on PC meet a jerk or a man who just isn't interested they assume he has issues or mental illness. Does it make anything better? I have never met anyone in real life who would try to diagnose potential dates especially if they don't even know them!!!!

Are you in therapy? That would be helpful to address why you feel desperation like this and why you allow such treatment . I am in therapy and am really trying to get better as I did similar things you do and I am almost 50! My t says I am showing growth. I guess never too late!


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