After months of research I figured out what it is that has been causing me so much confusion and pain with every relationship. I am an abandoholic. This article sang to me because all of it rang true.
Abandoholics Anonymous | Fear of Abandonment | Abandonment Therapy | Abandonment Recovery | Susan Anderson

I am at what they call fear of engulfment swing. Hence I'm in a relationship where I have lost my interest and I don't know what to do. Do I need to end it and get treatment before I get into another one or is there a way to save the one I'm in. We live together and I moved cross country for him. We have finances together and apart would be difficult financially. We have a dog and cat together. He has been patient with me but we haven't had any intimacy since late October.

Please any advice.