I don't know why it is matter why he does and why. It would matter if he was your significant other or your husband, then you can try to understand, but you don't even know him. You have not even met!!!

What do you care if he has mental illness? He isn't interested and isn't nice enough to be direct about it. And is rude standing you up. That's all you need to know.

I know it sucks but unless you take responsibility for what you do things will never get better. Self respect is a must.

And honestly if a man isn't interested plus is a jerk, no amount of kindness is going to change that .

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