Actually you're quite correct. Thus the reason I've backed off entirely. I've talked to her about me not pushing anymore or asking about doctor's or anything. I don't want to push the issue anymore as my insistence, you noted, is inappropriate.



Totally actually. She's never been overly affectionate, but we always had a very good sex life. But last October it suddenly stopped. I don't know why, could have been any number of things and a sudden change like that was alarming. Thus my insistence to see if something was wrong medically or psychologically or whatever. But as I mentioned above, I was compounding the problem and have backed off entirely. I don't want to be part of the problem and I can't be part of the solution.

The really hard thing is that there isn't even any being supportive. I just have to sit and let it come from her side. In the mean time, we're drifting farther apart.


She has always had body image issues going waaaaaay back to her childhood. But whatever came along in October shut things down. I don't know the connection, but something is there. Something I can't push ... again, pushing to see the psychologist is just making things worse, not better.


I can understand that actually. The post is from my own emotional perspective.