Hi CosmicRose, I know how this feels, and you feel right now exactly how you were manipulated to feel. How else could it turn out?
If he suddenly contacts you out of the blue, in a few days or weeks, don't be surprised. But, whatever you do, don't take the bait.
I'll tell you why, it sounds like he is a manipulative jerk narcissist.
Research that.
Having not real 'relationships' is their specialty because they get to pull all the strings, they can pretend to feel or do whatever benefits themselves and have no obligation to you, it may be not so much if they think ahead and plan it all, its because they truly don't and can't care about what your side of the relationship is. They're too busy making sure they aren't bored and that they're getting lots of attention from lots of people.
But, whether or not he's dysfunctional, you need to build some boundaries. You have to protect yourself from being hurt. And someone who blatantly defies the most common and core elements of good behavior is not going to stop there.
When someone shows you who they are, beleive them.