Oops, also meant to answer your question. No, he's not a boyfriend/lover. Recently he gave me a quick kiss (I don't know if he was going for cheek but he got neck) and I let him know right away that I wasn't interested in anything romantic (in any way imaginable!). He was fine with it.

We sort of dated a few years ago for a couple of weeks. We were hanging out and then we did a lot of kiss and cuddling. He didn't know we were dating because I guess he just does that with friends only but I let him know right then I wasn't ok with that.

Basically, I think he's just really emotionally immature and wants a mommy. I've managed to stay out of the mommy role but it takes effort sometimes with him!!!