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Originally Posted by BeyondtheRainbow
She very well might. I usually come out of episodes feeling weaker and sometimes embarrassed. If you are there as a friend and she sees that she very well may respond and if you can be honest but gentle it will help her heal. Every episode feels like a huge new wound is opened and has to heal the best it can with as little scarring as possible. Someone who cares and wants to see you heal is very helpful.
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I do care and want to help. No one else is going to pick up where we left off and have any idea how to be there for her. Men just use her up when she's like this, of course she invites it, but it happens. I just happened along at the right time for her and we made it work somehow. She was always so grateful to have me. I am by no means seeking to be a hero or sound like one. She has to want it. Many of my friends have told me themselves that there is nobody else who will put as much effort into supporting her or understanding her as I did, That combined with the friendship we shared, the beginning of a blended family with my daughter, the amount of respect and trust we shared, on and on.. I just don't see her being content very long with another person. Who knows though..